If you have a pre-teen, chances are he or she already has an Instagram account. Some celebs even create social media accounts for their kids shortly after they’re born.
Here’s how to keep your child safe while he or she is using Instagram:
Understand the app yourself
The more familiar you are with the app, the better you will be able to monito your child’s usage. If you don’t already have an account, consider setting one up for yourself and playing with it a little to get a better understanding of how it works.
Check your child’s privacy settings
When you create an Instagram account, you have two options: public and private. Any Instagram user can view and follow a public account whereas private accounts can only be viewed by followers. This means that only approved users can view your images and stories. Many people who want to gain a social media following opt for the public account, but this option has so many safety concerns – especially for kids. It might be worth setting your child’s account to private (if it’s not already) because you never know who might engage with his or her videos and images or even send them unwanted messages or comments.
Social media can have an impact on your child’s mental health
Instagram is driven by “likes” which can turn the platform into a popularity contest. This can affect your child’s self-esteem, contribute to anxiety and even spark feelings of envy.
Children might also go out of their way to create “impressive” content like taking part in dangerous challenges or posting photos of them wearing inappropriate outfits to get these likes.
Kids also often don’t realise that not everything they see on Instagram is real. With so many filters and photo editing you can use to alter your appearance; it can create a desire for unattainable perfection.
According to psychologist and author Jonathan Haidt, depression and anxiety in American teens have increased since 2011 (Instagram was launched in 2010).
Keep an eye out for cyberbullying
Parenty reports that the number of girls hospitalised due to self-harm increased between 2009 and 2011. (Remember that Instagram was launched in 2010).
- 62% for girls between 15-19 years old
- 189% for girls between 10-14 years old
Suicide rates amongst these girls have also increased:
- 70% for girls between 15-19 years old
- 151% for girls between 10-14 years old
Block and mute unwanted interactions
Yes, your child deserves to have privacy, but when it comes to social media and keeping them safe, you as the parent have the right to monitor their social media accounts.
You can “block” accounts from interacting with your child’s stories and posts. The blocked person won’t be notified that they’ve been blocked and they can be unblocked at any time. However, if your child doesn’t want to block someone, you can mute the account without that person knowing.
Install filters to block crude content
If you’re concerned about cyberbullying or your child being exposed to crude content, go to “Filters” in the Comment Controls section to remove offensive words and phrases from their Instagram feed, Explore page, profile and live videos. While there are built-in filters that can help you choose words and phrases, you can also create your own customized filters.
Turn of location settings
You can tag your location whenever you post content to Instagram, but we’d suggest that you turn these off completely – especially with the recent spike in attempted child kidnappings in South Africa.
Install a third-party app to monitor your child’s social media
Chances are your child will restore his old settings minutes after you’ve set up all the privacy settings. A third-party app will make it easier for you to monitor your child’s social media usage. Appsafe is a great South African parenting tool to view kids’ social media acticity, block porn, control apps and games and even track SMS messages and calls.
Xanet is an award-winning journalist and Living and Loving’s digital editor. She has won numerous awards for her health and wellness articles and was a finalist for the Discovery Journalist of the Year in 2009 and again in 2011 for the Discovery Best Health Consumer Reporting and Feature Writing category. She is responsible for our online presence across social media channels and makes sure our moms have fresh and interesting articles to read every day. Learn more about Xanet Scheepers.